by Bruce Stankavage | Anxiety, Articles, Psychological Immune System
Recently, the coach of a youth hockey team shared how his team was hit by various injuries this year. He described two players who both suffered shoulder injuries. One broke his collarbone, and the other broke his clavicle and dislocated his shoulder. I asked how the...
by Bruce Stankavage | Articles, Confidence, Misunderstanding
Before almost every game in my first two years in college, I would leave the team and sneak to the bathroom to throw up. Actually, I never vomited because I had no food in my stomach; I only dry-heaved, which was even worse. Like many people, I misunderstood the...
by Bruce Stankavage | Anxiety, Articles
Thank you, God. Somehow I came to believe that an off feeling (anxiety, doubt, insecurity, anger, sadness) was a problem and something to be challenged, fixed and overcome. I worked really hard seeking relief when I felt out of sorts. My striving and hard work...
by Bruce Stankavage | Anxiety, Articles, Misunderstanding
I HATE FEELING LIKE THIS! If you believe that you choose how you feel about a person, event, or circumstance, consider this. Last week my son, who is a freshman starting guard for his high school basketball team, was playing in his first home game against a nationally...
by Bruce Stankavage | Psychological Immune System
On a Saturday in early August, I was golfing with my brother, Scott, when he received an upsetting phone call. As we rode in the cart to the first green, I asked him about the call. He said it was Shawn, his oldest son. With tears in his eyes, he quietly told me that...
